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Never Give Up


It is about 145 days since President Ron Yeap took office,to be exact the date 22nd November 2016 is the club’s 369th meeting since inception of the club. As up to this day every meeting as being going on as scheduled. It has been much fun and enthusiasm at every meeting. I should say every meeting had a different facet of the diamond.  If you missed a meeting it was as good as you missed a part of the life of the club. The new man at helm with his team made the club take a new dimension.

On this special day, I was approached by the President and he said “Mathew, can you be the General Evaluator of the day”. I, without a second thought replied “Yes Sir, I will do it”.  This position is normally given to person who is well learned in Toastmasters activity and from another club. In toastmasters we take a promise, “To serve my club when called upon to do so”.  This promise is one of the promises we take as an oath before each of our club meetings. 



What is my role as a General Evaluator is to assess the club for the entire meeting right from the start.  In my heart, I felt very emotional, as I was the Past president of this club and today my task to evaluate a single meeting and give feedback.  As a General Evaluator, I have to highlight what is good or what went right and areas that need improvement to suggest something that will encourage and motivate the club.  A general Evaluator is helped by key role players who check the timing, the words we use and if there are any speech crutches also there are speech evaluators who help to evaluate a speech. My role is appreciate these evaluators how well they have done their roles and suggest if there are ways we can further help for the club to learn and grow.

As our Timer Wendy Sim reported our meeting started on time and all speakers and speeches went on time.  The timer has 3 lights she used to guide the meeting green, yellow and red. Yes it looks like traffic light color. Some of us may get caught up with our speeches or our sharing so timer’s role, keeps us back on track so that our meetings as much as possible starts and finishes on time.
Actually, is easy to speak, however it is difficult not have speech crutches like “ah”, “eh” “hmmm” or repeat words like “ also”, also”, “I see” I see”,  “ you know”, “you know” .  The specialist to check this is called the Ah Counter.  This time the Ah counter was competent Communicator Vijay kumar. He carefully noted our speech crutches, can one imagine he even manged to detect a person with 39 speech crutches. Well, many of us start of like that. I remember hearing one of speech champion Distinguished Toastmaster  Justin Ong he shared that when he started he had more than 50 speech crutches.


Our Grammarian for the Day Chitirra, her role is another tedious one, she makes sure that we use the correct grammar, pronunciations and did we manage to use the Word of the Day in our speeches or in our sharing.  During the President address, she was asked to introduce the Word of Day and the meaning of the Word. She said the Word of the Day was “Laconic” sometimes a word like this is difficult to pronounce so in the meeting we get “a hands on” practice.  So our Grammarian will highlight the one who successfully used the most number.  I should say Chitirra was quick to observe the good phrases, misused phrases, good sentences structures and the how a wrong sentence can be corrected. A Grammarian is not necessary an expert in the language. This role helps us in the skill of hearing which is similar like the Ah counter. A Grammarian as she hears  the English language is able to learn and appreciate the language better.   



We had four speech evaluators on this day, Advance Toastmaster Gold (ATMG)KL Loh is a very senior member of the club he evaluated Mandy Chan a new comer to the club. She was only doing her second speech. I say she need a lot of encouragement to continue the journey in toastmasters in giving speeches.  KL Loh, ATMG, pointed out the strength this shy looking lass had. It was her second speech she manged to speak for the time allotted with our looking at notes, “Bravo’.    
When she was introduced with her speech title, all was thinking what was “YOLO”, she gave a personal story and explained "YOLO", You Only Live On Earth Once. It’s amazing, how she made the speech interesting. Our seasoned evaluator KL Loh ATMG gave tips to improve her speech who maybe a prospective speech Champion.

  
Our next evaluator Competent Toastmaster, Competent Leader (CTM, CL) Tan Ben Hoe  is another senior yet dedicated Toastmasters.  He evaluated Cheng San San for his 9th speech in the Competent Communication Series.  His speech title looked strange “Bursa PETS channel”. Kept most of us wondering is it all about pets.  Cheng San is an expert in stock exchange and he pointed out through graph and charts how if have knowledge we can gain much through stock exchange. He had a power point presentation to bring his point clearer. As Ben Hoe CTM CL applauded him on his topic he was quick to give him tips how he can use all what he learned in his earlier speech topics to make his speech look much more rewarding. Surely, Cheng can use this tip and give a great finale for this 10th Speech.  As the saying goes “Rome is not build in a day”.  As Cheng San keep speaking he not only attain his Competent Communicator status but he will be admirable speaker.  


Our President Ron Yeap was the next evaluator and we imagine who he as evaluating, it was May Ong CC, ALB. She is one of the area directors(AD). She had a unique speech title HOLD. She was inspiring us to continue our Toastmasters journey by repeating what we taught we are good in so we can be better. In his evaluation, Ron Yeap CC, admired her courage and the same time he added that such a persuasive speech like hers may have added more value with a more persuasive speech title.  His other examples for a good speech, I am sure added value to the AD May Ong and to the rest of the audience.  


Our Final evaluator is Advanced Competent Communicator Bronze, Advance Leader Bronze (ACB, ALB) CP Lau. This evaluator that has smile that can influence anyone to smile is one of our Past Presidents of our club.  He has participated in number of speech and evaluation contest. He had the privilege of evaluating our long standing member Advance Competent Bronze Kelvin Chong.  Kelvin was giving his speeches based on the Advance Communication Manual. All of us know Kelvin Chong as a very humorous man.  He has usual made us laugh as we enjoyed his speech. The evaluator CP Lau ACB, ALB in appreciating the speech gave finer points of how his speech, “Resources for living”, could be more meaningful if it can fulfil more of the speech objective in his speech topic “Speaking to inform”.  The nuggets that CP Lau shared was rewarding not only to the speaker but to all.  I should say as all the evaluations summed up may have made the club gain a new height in excellence.


As General Evaluator, I take all the points given by my support group to acknowledge the strength of the club and areas of improvement.  There are two important people who made the meeting successful, it was Sergeant At Arms (SAA),  Wenny Loh and the Toastmaster of the Evening (TME) Kevin Khoo.  SAA Wenny put the meeting in order by highlighting the house rules when the meeting began and she led all in reciting the in toastmasters promise, It may look like a small task. She is instrumental for meeting to be on time even after a refreshment break in between.  Our TME Kevin, actually helped to run the meeting according to the agenda. He had good gestures and high motivation spirit that kept the meeting lively.  Actually, he being the Vice President of Education, had been working on the success of this meeting more than a week of the meeting.  As he rolls out the meeting he was prompt in all his introduction.


TME Kevin Khoo CC, took special care of our guest Carim, as he introduced the history of Toastmasters and what one can benefit from joining it.   In any toastmasters meeting a session that gives inspiration to all is table topics.  He introduces the table Topic Master EK Yeo, CC, CL. He hand over the command of the meeting to him which is normally done by a handshake. As Table Topic Master took over he explains the session and encourages the audience to participate in the impromptu speaking. 
We had four speakers, the first speaker KL Loh had a topic “In order to succeed you must first believe”, and without wasting anytime, very fluently this seasoned speaker spoke of memorable event of fulfilling his dream at the age of 50years by climbing Mount Kinabalu. He used the word of the Day “Laconic" as he captivated the audience. He was followed by Wenny Loh, this pint size girl , with a slow and steady space answered to the topic given to her “ It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do”. She repeated the title to all to hear clearly and she said how she overcome the fear of the future.  She quoted the theme of the day “Never Give Up” which was introduced by the President Ron in the beginning of the meeting.  Wenny said, “Even when she need to let go she will never give up”.  Can you imagine how bold this girl is although small in size?  

The first two speeches inspired our guest “ Carim” and he decided to take part. He came up and repeated his title, ‘The best preparation for tomorrow is doing the best today’. When the Toastmaster gave the title and he repeated, it was in the mind of all that he is prospective toastmaster who has the style of speaking like a toastmaster. Well, for sure he signed up as a member at the end of the meeting.  I say for first timer He spoke well. Our final speaker was Manish, He is a bubbly man, when given the title “it always seem impossible until it’s done. It hit his adrenalin gland, Manish cannot sit still, and he is an achiever. As usual he attract response by asking the audience question, using this gesture as a pivot he sums up his speech. Yes, he uses the theme as he says “you can do it, never give up”


Table topics sets the pulse of any meeting. It creates so much of excitement. However as I said in the beginning, I am impressed by the president himself. President Ron in setting the meeting rolling, He gave an inspiring introduction speech. He welcomed the guests and he quoted people who succeeded without giving up. He inspired the seniors to continue in toastmaster's journey in not giving up with the speeches.  I was admiring this man for the past few club meetings. Something within him has changed as he took over the new role.   I truly believe I see this transformation not only in the President but in every EXCO.As a general evaluator I made comments of some changes to make the club environment of the club to look better. 



Finally I like to say Money Mastery-KL Toastmasters has fulfilled the Mission of Toastmasters International in providing a supportive and positive learning experience in which members are empowered to develop communication and leadership skills, resulting in greater self-confidence and personal growth.



Reported by Past President, Mathew Philippose, CC, ALB.



Sincerely, 
Thanks to the Team,
Manish Jha, CC
Money Mastery –KL Toastmasters Club
VPPR (Vice President of Public Relation 2016/2017)

Light it Up


Who doesn’t’ like light? Who doesn’t like winning? Who doesn’t like the truth? I guess I am thinking too much. Do you know that Diwali is India’s biggest and most important holiday of the year. The festival gets its name from the row (Avali) of clay lamps (Deepa) that Indian lights outside their houses to symbolize the inner light that protects us from spiritual darkness. 

This festival is as important to Hindus as the Christmas Holiday to Christians. Some interesting information about Diwali in Northern India is that they celebrate the story of King Rama’s return to Ayodhya (Kingdom) after he defeated Ravana by lighting rows of clay lamps. South India celebrates it as the day lord Krishna defeated the demon Narkasura. As for western India, the festival marks the day that Lord Vishnu , the preserver (One of the main gods of hindu trinity) sent the demon king Bali to rule neither world. In all interpretation, one common thread rings true- The festival marks the victory of good over evil. This was one of the most exciting Toastmasters meetings in MM-KL. 

We were celebrating the spirit of Deepavali. Everyone’s smile on this evening proved that we stand together and we are committed to help each other to achieve more.We were encouraged to wear Indian ethnic dresses as Deepavali celebrated mostly in India and by Indians (Hindu’s) outside the country.

Once the ASAA (Assistant sergeant at Arms) Yap, Ooi Yee ensured that the meeting can be started. She led the recitation of Toastmasters promises and without further delay she called our club president Competent Communicator Ron Yeap.

  

Ron, as our club president enraptured the atmosphere and sets the floor with his eye-opening researches about Deepavali. Although he doesn’t celebrate Diwali at home but his words left the entire audience felt touched as we respect and embrace every culture in Toastmasters. He knows that despite most of our members in Toastmaster do not really celebrate Diwali but he still enlighten us the essence of this festival. He lighted up the floor with his wonderful words and opened the floor to the member of MM-KL to introduce themselves. Next, he warmly handed over the floor to the Toastmaster of the evening, DTM, Dr. Thilla.

Dr. Thilla is the one and the only female Distinguished Toastmaster in our club, she took over the stage and begins the meeting with excitement. She introduced all the role players. She called the first table topic master to conduct the Table Topic Session.



 This round, I have prepared 9 interesting topics about Diwali based on the theme of the day. However, there were only 4 Speakers that participated due to time constraint. 
1. FoongSook Hwa(guest) – Diwali is all about noise and air pollution. I hate it. What about you?
2. Cindy Foon(guest)- What do you like the most in Diwali?
3. Calvin (Guest)- If you were to use one word to describe diwali, what it would be? And why?
4. Kevin khoo(our VPE) –Diwali in India is better than Malaysia, do you agree?



All of them expressed their thoughts very well. Audiences were laughing,feeling touched by some of the impromptu speeches whereby speakers learn to deliver their speech spontaneously without any preparation. Isn’t it interesting?
Next everyone is waiting for project speeches. As for this week, we are excited to have four speakers including an ice breaking speech! 
Let me begin with my personal view on the ice breaking. Our new member, Joel presented his first ever speech with the title of “The prodigal son”. In this speech speaker has to say something about himself because it is his first speech.  He confidently walked down the stage, took a deep breath and……………………………………………….


Begun with his personal real story, he was not interested in study. He said he used to spend money recklessly with friends and just like to enjoy his life without any purpose. Therefore, his father wanted him to start working in an insurance company to gain exposure about the true meaning of “Life”. 


Are you a parent? Do you have any kid? No matter whether you have kids or you are a parent, you need to listen to our upcoming speaker, Foo Fung jiun’s speech with the title of ‘A parent’s night mare’. His speech created Goosebumps while listening through. A real story about how a parent get so worried when his child became unconscious and not responding for few minutes. For your information, Fung Jiun is a father of two kids and he went through this experience and He came out more stronger in his life later after this night mare experience. It was indeed an excellent speech as he utilized a lot of vocal varieties in his speech. Well done !!


Then it was our next speaker, Wendy Sim. The most charming and always-smiling friend. She was ready with her Speech number 7 from CC manual.  As per the speech objectives, she managed to demonstrate an excellent research on her topic “Home schooling- A vibrant Explosion”. She collected various information from numerous resources and educated us with her real life story about her own children who are studying in home school and How home schooling could be a better option for some of the parents out there.


Our last speaker DTM, Ken Chan presented his speech number 9 from CC manual Persuade with power with the speech title "Managing your Time". He is one of the senior who always encourage the juniors to speak well. We are delighted once again today as he taught us about the importance of time management with proper practical technique. He drawn a diagram on the paper and explained to us on how to set the priority to manage our time more effectively basing them on urgency and priority. Thanks Ken for your educational speech.



Next, our General evaluator Teoh Chun Ming took over the control of the stage and called each elvaluator to present their report. Finally he also added his recommendations and he said that it was a great evening listening to exciting speech and he was glad to be part of this enrapturing meeting.

Next, our General evaluator Teoh Chun Ming took over the control of the stage and called each and every evaluator to present their report. Finally he added his recommendations and he said that it was a great evening listening to exciting speech and he was glad to be part of this enrapturing meeting.
Finally our President Ron Yeap took over the control to appreciate the best performers.


Concluded the whole session. He wished everyone a Happy Deepawali and Happy Holiday to everyone. Eventually, he announced the meeting to adjourn. Last but not least, I hope all the guests have enjoyed the our meeting as much as I did. See you guys in our next meeting!





Sincerely, 
Thanks to the Team,
Manish Jha, CC
Money Mastery –KL Toastmasters Club
VPPR (Vice President of Public Relation 2016/2017)

Meeting #366: Wisdom Of The Ages

1. ASAA- Joel    2. Grammarian- Fung Jiun    3. Introduction from EK Yeo,CC, CL
4. President- Ron Yeap, CC
The meeting #366 was led by a very newly joined member, Joel. It was his maiden moment, stood in front and called the meeting to order. He was the assistant Sergeant-At-Arm and was the first person to spoken in the meeting. He led us in the recital of the Toastmasters’ promises. Well done, Joel!

Then, the President Ron Yeap, Competent Communicator (CC) took over the floor. He extended his welcome to our Area Director, Advance Communicator Bronze, Advance Leader Bronze (ACB,ALB) Charmine Lee,  who came and played the role as our meeting General Evaluator. It was such a privilege to have her in our club meeting.

Ron Yeap, CC, kicked off the meeting by inviting present to introduce themselves briefly. It was our club culture to get all members and guests to introduce themselves and at the same time to encourage all to use the word of the day “Ambivalent” in their introduction. The theme of the night was “Wisdom of The Ages”, a very engaging theme. Many uplifted the meeting by sharing meaningful and wonderful quotes.

After the stirring introduction from the members, Ron Yeap, CC handed over the meeting to the Toastmasters of the evening, Serena Kong, ACB. She informed that in the month of October, Toastmasters International was celebrating its 92th Anniversary. Every toastmaster’s journey starts with a single speech. We learn to tell our stories, we listen and answer. We plan and we lead. We give and accept feedbacks. We are grateful as we are at the right place where we empower the members to become more effective communicators and leaders.

The table topics™ session was led by Competent Communicator, Competent Leader (CC,CL) EK Yeo . As usual, topics were given, where speakers would speak off the cuff. In this meeting we had 4 speakers and they were:

       A)   Kelvin Chong, ACB- “Self-suggestion makes you master of yourself.” 
       B)   CP Lau, ACB, ALB- “Giving opens the way of receiving.” 
       C)   Guest Chiao- “A mistake is simply another way of doing things.” 
 D)   Manish Jha, CC- “Quick decision is unsafe decision."

Everyone was paying the attention to speakers and witnessed how the speakers aced the impromptu speech. Some spoke with confident, some shared their experiences, stories or ideas. The session was indeed very interesting.



During the prepared speech presentation, toastmaster Chitirra told us an engrossing story. She told us that she had thanatophobia, fear of death. She shared her experience on how this phobia had tortured her mental and how she had dealt with it. The story was completely enthralling together with her facial expression, we listened from the beginning to end.

Toastmaster Ooi Yee, on the other hand, shared her story, 10 Years to us. She broke the silence by telling us the she quit her job. It was a surprise as she was a long service staff in her company as a project team leader. She was always worked like the cat on the hot tin roof. “10 YEARS!” She ended her speech by asking us “how many 10 YEARS do we have?” It was really a good closing that gave us a wakeup call, reminded us to prioritize what matters more.
 


The last speaker for the session was done by the President, Ron Yeap, CC. He was persuading the members to keep speaking, keep making mistakes, keep strive for being a confident speaker, from Good to Great! He told how he had transformed from a low self-esteem speaker to become a more confident speaker. He encouraged the members to explore their potentials. “Just Do It!” In his speech, he tried to build the confidence among the members by asking them to keep telling themselves, “I can do it!”. Practice makes perfection! 

After hearing three riveting presentations, we had a short break of ten minutes. The first agenda after resuming from the break was to induct a new member. It was a very important session as the new member was officially being introduced to the club. The Vice President Membership (VPM), Wendy Sim inducted Joel and introduced his mentor, Ken Chan, DTM to him.

1. Toastmaster of The Evening: Serena, ACB    2. Table Topics Master: EK. Yeo, CC, CL
3. VPM Wendy Sim inducted Joel
 
Next, we had a special session. Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) Ken Chan, gave his area winning speech “I’m a sucker” in the club. It was so happy to see that the members contributed their thoughts over his speech. Their constructive and sincere feedback was the sign of supports to highlight the blind side of his presentation.

After that, General Evaluator, Charmine Lee, ACB, ALB took stage control and started leading the report and evaluation session.  Table  Topics™ Evaluator, Kevin Khoo, CC highlighted the strength and the areas of improvement of each table topics speakers. Here was the summary of his suggestions or commands to the speakers:

Kelvin Chong, ACB-
Used vivid words to paint the picture in the eyes of the audience
Cp Lau, ACB, ALB-
Had good language and had enough thought over the topic
Guest Chiao-
Took out the hands from the pants would help him to feel more relax while speaking
Manish Jha, CC-
Very enthusiastic speaker, engagement with the audience was important also


For the prepared speech evaluation, Tan Ben Hoe, CTM, CL, suggested toastmaster Chitirra to ask question in the beginning of the speech to get the attention of her speech. Advance Communicator Gold, Advance Leader Bronze (ACG, ALB) Dr. Thilla, on the other hand, highlighted Ooi Yee’s potential and encouraged her to utilize her body language to carry her speech message in her future presentation. Followed by, Mathew P., CC, ALB, started with his evaluation with humor. He mentioned that, “boss always forget the time as they speak and walk out of the boundaries…” He reminded speaker Ron Yeap, CC always spoke within the allocated time and permitted area.

 
The honorable General Evaluator, Charmaine Lee, ACB, ALB gave her report after her team of technical evaluators had given their reports. She advised that our members should practice to introduce the next role player or speakers during the program transition. This will help to edify and adding the credibility of the role player like Toastmaster of the Evening, Table Topic Master. Charmaine’s observant and detailed report has left us with valuable take-home-points for improvement.


The night reached its peak during the award presentation. The best performers of the meeting were announced.

The Best Table Topic Speaker goes to: CP Lau, ACB, ALB
The Best Speech Evaluator goes to: Mathew Philippose, CC, ALB

The meeting adjourned after the closing address by the President, Ron Yeap, CC. Then, we quickly moved to cake cutting for Dr. Thilla C., ACG, ALB, born in October. Cesare Pavese says, “We do not remember days, we remember moments.” Indeed, we had a great evening.

 

 
Sincerely, 
Thanks to the Team,
Manish Jha, CC
Money Mastery –KL Toastmasters Club
VPPR (Vice President of Public Relation 2016/2017)