THE RIGHT WAY TO SPEAK

The RIGHT Way to Speak"


In an effort to maximize our ability to communicate publicly, we often search for the "right" way to speak.
Finding the "right" way, however, is like grabbing a handful of water.

Why? It is because the right way is slightly different for each person.
It's a combination of who, what, and where we are at the moment.

Of course, we can all apply certain fundamentals and techniques to elevate our skill, but each of use will use them with varying results.
Have you ever heard the same joke from two different people and one time it was funny and the other time it was not?
Chances are high that the first was simply a funnier person than the second.


Here's the secret to speaking the right way...

1. Know your speaking ability at the moment and use a majority of techniques that fit within that level.
Go with what works for you right now.

2. Continue to learn and apply new skills as you master your present set.
For most, public speaking does not come naturally; it is an acquired and admired skill that comes through education and application.

3. Use one new speaking technique each speech or presentation.
Try out a new story, or a new prop, or a new close.
I say one because if it doesn't work out the way you expected, you have your sure bet techniques already doing a great job for you.


The right way is simply YOUR way at the moment.
Do your best. Share the greatest value with the audience.
Don't beat yourself up if you are just starting.
Don't give yourself too much slack if you've been speaking for years, but refuse to learn and apply new things.

(Paul Evans - Instant Speaking Success)